Ageing is a natural process of life. We all have to get there one day. And, they don’t just say that kids and the elderly are very alike for no reason at all. They are indeed very similar, meaning that caring for aging parents is probably going to be the same as caring for your kids.
Now, if they’re still healthy and very much on their own, good for them and you. But as time goes by, before you even realise, old age hits and hits real hard too. The symptoms of ageing start becoming more evident; their needs start shifting as they need and also demand more attention.
If you’re at home (and willing) to look after them as they go through this tough stage of their lives, it’s settled right there. But if you’re working, have small kids, or find it difficult for any other reason to provide proper care and attention, it’s time to start exploring your options for elderly care.
Elderly Care Options for your Family
It’s your loved ones we’re talking about here and therefore the choice isn’t going to be easy. Look at it this way: the first time you start looking for a playgroup for your toddler; making sure that everything’s right for him/her when they’re away from you. It’s similar to that. You’d need to ensure that whatever option you choose for your parents is in their best interest.
1. Assisted living:
This is perhaps one of the best choices to make when the elders can neither live on their own nor require medical care facilities on daily basis (as in a full-time nurse). You can find assisted living communities in or near your area that offer the facility of meals, housekeeping, reminders to take medications on time, and other planned activities to keep them engaged and happy all day.
2. Caregivers:
This would be an ideal choice if your family member insists to stay in the privacy and familiarity of their own home environment. When they begin to seek more help and you aren’t available all the time, you could hire a caregiver in the form of a personal care attendant or a certified nurse.
While the former can help around with all of their routine needs like cooking for them or cleaning up their room, the latter would be great help in regular monitoring of their health condition, and even bathing and dressing them.
3. Caring for the elderly at home
This does seem ideal from the point of view of the elderly because nobody other than their own relations can look after them any better. However, understandably, it’s a crucial decision to make because of a number of factors – your work schedule, kids at home, or even the relationship of your parents with your spouse/partner.
What to Consider While Choosing a Caregiver
You need someone who can care for your family member like their very own; therefore:
- Determine why they need a caregiver in the first place (ascertain their exact needs)
- Assess your finances
- Prepare a thorough questionnaire for interviewing the caregiver
- Perform background checks on the person chosen
- Value the opinion of the elderly member in question
To sum up
At the end of the day, it’s entirely a personal decision on who you choose;just make sure that your family member is happy and well looked after.
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